When two people have been living together and they decide not to live together anymore, they are separated. When married parents separate, their marriage has not yet ended. They have to get a divorce to legally end a marriage. Parents who are not married can agree on how they will cooperate to take care of you after they separate. Or they can ask the Vermont court to make a legal separation order. Part of the legal separation order will include a “Parental Rights and Responsibilities” Order, also known as a “parenting plan.”
Parental Rights and Responsibilities are what the court calls custody. A parental rights and responsibilities order will say how your parents are going to make decisions about taking care of you and when each parent spends time with you. If either parent doesn’t follow the court’s order, the court can take steps to enforce it.